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# Eisenberg & Spilman, PLLC

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- [Laura Eisenberg Named Among Michigan’s Top 5 Super Lawyers for 2026](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2026/09/laura-eisenberg-named-among-michigans-top-5-super-lawyers-for-2026/) - We are so proud to share this news with you. Laura Eisenberg has been named among the Top 5 Family Law Michigan Super Lawyers for 2026. It is a statewide recognition that places her among a very small number of family law attorneys who have earned this distinction in Michigan. For our law firm, and
- [How to Protect Your Wealth in a High-Net-Worth Divorce in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2025/03/how-to-protect-your-wealth-in-a-high-net-worth-divorce-in-michigan/) - Protect your assets in a Michigan high-net-worth divorce. Learn strategies for business, retirement, and property division. Call our legal team today.
- [Can the custody process cause unhealthy stress?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/can-the-custody-process-cause-unhealthy-stress/) - For a lot of parents, the custody process can be very complex. Many are overwhelmed by difficulties they are working through in their professional life or problems with friends and family members. Others may have financial concerns and fears about how their divorce could affect their kids. On top of all of these hurdles, some
- [Understanding Michigan Custody Laws in 2025](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2025/04/understanding-michigan-custody-laws-in-2025/) - Learn how Michigan child custody laws work in 2025, including legal vs. physical custody, best interest factors, and how to request modifications.
- [How Much Does It Cost to Get Divorce Without Contest in Michigan?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2025/04/how-much-does-it-cost-to-get-divorce-without-contest-in-michigan/) - Discover the cost of uncontested divorce in Michigan, including filing fees, attorney rates, and factors that may affect your total divorce expenses.
- [Why Would a Judge Not Grant 50/50 Custody?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2025/03/why-would-a-judge-not-grant-50-50-custody/) - Wondering why 50/50 custody isn’t always granted in Michigan? Learn key reasons judges decide custody based on the child’s best interests. Contact us today.
- [Five Different Considerations for High Asset Divorces in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2025/03/five-different-considerations-for-high-asset-divorces-in-michigan/) - Navigate Michigan high-asset divorce with expert legal guidance. Learn about property division, business stakes, taxes, hidden assets, and spousal support.
- [How can assumptions hurt your children in a custody case?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2024/03/how-can-assumptions-hurt-your-children-in-a-custody-case/) - When parents divorce, they have many important decisions to make. One is determining custody arrangements for the children. Assumptions can complicate this process. They can also hurt the children. What are some unintended consequences of assumptions? Assumptions can lead to misunderstandings and misinterpretations of a child's best interests. Parents may assume they know what is
- [Property division has significant financial implications](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/03/property-division-has-significant-financial-implications/) - The decision to end a marriage can be a difficult one to make for many Michigan couples. Often, the decision boils down to finances. Although one of the individuals may truly want a divorce, financial concerns play an important role in the final decision. The individual is concerned about how property division will affect his
- [Types of child custody in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/03/types-of-child-custody-in-michigan/) - Divorce is a fact of life for many Michigan couples. As a part of the process, many decisions regarding assets, debts and other factors must be taken into consideration. Perhaps one of the most important decisions that must be made in many divorce proceedings are the ones regarding child custody. There are two basic types
- [Tips for staying in touch with a child who does not live with you](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/04/tips-for-staying-in-touch-with-a-child-who-does-not-live-with-you/) - Whether you have joint custody with the other parent or not, it can be difficult to stay in contact with a child who does not live with you all the time. It is so important to stay connected, because your child needs your presence, even when you do not get along with the other parent.
- [Is it possible to lower child support payments?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/09/is-it-possible-to-lower-child-support-payments/) - Many Michigan parents who divorce are required to contribute financially for the benefit of their children to provide for their needs. It is usually a noncustodial parent who pays child support to a custodial parent, though child support could also be ordered in circumstances where the parents share joint custody. The amounts vary according to
- [Life after divorce: How to move toward a happy new lifestyle](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/10/life-after-divorce-how-to-move-toward-a-happy-new-lifestyle/) - Most Michigan married couples do not enter their unions thinking they will one day wind up on opposing sides in court. In fact, divorce catches many spouses off-guard, thus setting the stage for some serious emotional challenges. The process is typically more easily navigable if one knows where to turn for support. Talking to other
- [Child custody case may have been compromised by official's breach](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/10/child-custody-case-may-have-been-compromised-by-officials-breach/) - A woman working for a now disbanded organization that conducted investigations into alleged police misconduct has since been accused of breaching protocol herself. Allegations against the woman assert that she gave private information to another party that may have compromised an active child custody battle. The complicated situation in another state remains unfolding at this
- [Father says he wants custody of his daughter, not the money](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/10/father-says-he-wants-custody-of-his-daughter-not-the-money/) - Many people in Michigan have been reaching out to help those whose lives were devastated by recent hurricanes in other states. One particular situation that was especially tragic involved a toddler whose mother did not survive the flood waters in their area. A child custody battle has arisen in that state in the aftermath of
- [Level of education may impact likelihood of divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/10/level-of-education-may-impact-likelihood-of-divorce/) - Recent studies show education level is, in fact, a key factor that repeatedly appears in lists of commonalities among couples whose marriages end in court. Michigan readers might not immediately think of how far they went in school when asked to list the top three markers that suggest propensity toward divorce. As it stands, those who
- [Overcoming child custody issues during the holidays](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/11/overcoming-child-custody-issues-during-the-holidays/) - Many Michigan parents are facing their first upcoming holiday seasons since they divorced. Some are worried that child custody problems may impede their abilities to enjoy the holidays with their families. Even in situations where parents have existing court orders regarding agreed-upon parenting arrangements, if certain parties refuse to adhere to such orders, it can
- [Key aspects of divorce mediation](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/key-aspects-of-divorce-mediation/) - Mediation is an effective alternative to court divorce proceedings. In some cases, such as high-net-worth divorces, mediation is especially beneficial. For those individuals deciding whether to utilize mediation, it is important to understand what it entails. There are a few key aspects of mediation to be aware of. Role of mediator The role of a mediator is to
- [What is 'free range parenting'?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/03/what-is-free-range-parenting/) - The state of Utah just passed a first-of-its-kind law formally legalizing so-called "free range parenting." This is a parenting theory espousing the idea that kids should be allowed to spend a great deal of time away from their parents and interacting with the world. It is the opposite of "helicopter" parenting, where parents are rarely
- [Am I sending the wrong message on social media during my divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/06/am-i-sending-the-wrong-message-on-social-media-during-my-divorce/) - During a divorce, social media is the outlet to which many people turn to distract themselves or vent about their experience. However, if you are going through a divorce, it is important to stop and think about the message you are sending to others with your social media habits, statements and decisions. Messages to your
- [What is separate property?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/07/what-is-separate-property/) - If you are getting divorced, one of your main concerns can be how you will divide your physical assets and property. Often, this is one of the most contentious steps in a divorce, so it is wise to be prepared and understand how the process works. One of the most important things to know is
- [Should we have a formal court order for child support?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/08/should-we-have-a-formal-court-order-for-child-support/) - Divorcing doesn't always involve animosity, distrust or anger. There are people who part ways amicably and with respect and compassion for each other. While this can make the legal process of ending the relationship easier, it can also create a false sense of security when it comes to the agreements parties reach during a divorce.
- [What should we include in our parenting time arrangements?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/08/what-should-we-include-in-our-parenting-time-arrangements/) - Reaching a decision on child custody is no small achievement, whether that decision is the result of mediation or litigation. However, it is only the first step of raising a child with but separately from another parent. After this decision comes the process of putting that plan into place and adjusting to the changes that
- [How are disagreements between parents sharing custody resolved?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/09/how-are-disagreements-between-parents-sharing-custody-resolved/) - Parents who divorce or split up will often share joint and/or physical custody of their children. This is because it is often in a child's best interests to have a relationship with both parents. As such, many Michigan parents will have to make child-related decisions cooperatively. Ideally, parents would agree on all these decisions. Realistically,
- [What can I include in a prenuptial agreement?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/11/what-can-i-include-in-a-prenuptial-agreement/) - When you are preparing for your wedding, perhaps the last thing you might want to think about is the possibility of the marriage ending in divorce. However, taking a little time to make a backup plan that addresses various divorce-related issues, even though they may never arise, can give you and your partner peace of
- [What happens if you sell marital property after your divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/05/what-happens-if-you-sell-marital-property-after-your-divorce/) - A divorce represents a significant transition. Although the filing and process generally takes a minimum of several months, it can be difficult to finalize one’s plans after the divorce. At a minimum, a couple will no longer live together. For parties that purchased real estate together, this requires a discussion of not only property division,
- [Should you be suspicious of a spouse's spending habits?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/10/should-you-be-suspicious-of-a-spouses-spending-habits/) - Michigan couples going through divorce already have many hurdles to clear. For example, you will have to figure out how to divide your assets. Unfortunately, this process may not always be as straightforward or even as honest as it should be. High asset divorces in particular lend themselves to cases where spouses may make attempts
- [What child support should be used for](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/what-child-support-should-be-used-for/) - When parents are married, they may not keep track of just how much of their spending goes toward the support of their children. However, during the divorce, the courts calculate an amount that each parent should pay. According to Michigan Legal Help, each parent's income and the amount of time the child spends with each
- [Is it a good idea to get a postnuptial agreement?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/is-it-a-good-idea-to-get-a-postnuptial-agreement/) - Thankfully the divorce rate in Michigan has not gone up in the last several decades, but it still hovers around 50%. Many couples with higher assets plan a prenuptial agreement prior to getting married. However, for those couples who do not have a prenup, a postnuptial agreement can be a valuable asset in the marriage.
- [Can you refuse visitation if you feel your child is in danger?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/can-you-refuse-visitation-if-you-feel-your-child-is-in-danger/) - When the Michigan courts assign visitation, they do so with the express purpose of ensuring the child or children involved maintain regular contact with the non-custodial parent. However, what looks good on paper does not always work out in real life. This is often the case when one parent has a history of domestic violence
- [What behaviors should you avoid in a custody battle?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/what-behaviors-should-you-avoid-in-a-custody-battle/) - In a Michigan custody battle, you may believe that you have your child’s best interests at heart. You know that you should win custody and that your child is better in your care, but are you sabotaging your own efforts? Emotions are always high during a child custody battle. It is likely that you will
- [How can you break the news of divorce to your children?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/how-can-you-break-the-news-of-divorce-to-your-children/) - Even parents with the best of intentions in a Michigan divorce often get consumed with the details of the proceedings, sometimes to the detriment of their children. The well-being of children at this stressful time involves a number of strategies and actions that help youths cope with the challenges of a divorce. This includes crafting
- [Mediation may help quash divorce squabbles](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/mediation-may-help-quash-divorce-squabbles/) - Michigan couples contemplating divorce may get mixed messages on how to proceed. Whether it involves dividing assets or time with children or both, fighting between the parties may stall proceedings and progress. The attorneys and staff at Eisenberg & Spilman PLLC understand how complex dissolving a marriage is. The entire process is highly emotional and
- [Can my ex move out of the country with my child after divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/can-my-ex-move-out-of-the-country-with-my-child-after-divorce/) - Parents facing a divorce with a spouse who has ties to another nation often have concerns about international child custody. Even when one parent has primary physical custody, Michigan usually preserves the right of each parent to spend time with the child and contribute to important decisions about his or her upbringing. Learn more about
- [How am I allowed to spend child support?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/how-am-i-allowed-to-spend-child-support/) - Many Michigan residents feel confused and overwhelmed after they receive their child support order. You may see the money as a blessing, but you could be worried about how to spend the money. Your family and friends may have told you the courts will monitor your spending, or your ex may have demanded receipts or
- [Do grandparents get visitation rights after a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/01/do-grandparents-get-visitation-rights-after-a-divorce/) - If you are a grandparent in Michigan, maintaining a relationship with your grandchildren may be one of the most fulfilling aspects of your life. If your child and his or her spouse divorce, however, it may be more challenging to schedule visits with your grandchildren. Fortunately, state laws protect your right to visit your grandchildren
- [When should you seek child custody modification?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/03/when-should-you-seek-child-custody-modification/) - When a divorce involves children, the final decree or settlement often contains the terms of the child custody arrangement. These terms are written based on the best interests of the children at the time the divorce is finalized. Yet, life changes occur and what best suited the children at one point in time may not
- [Can I change my child's last name?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/04/can-i-change-my-childs-last-name/) - One of the most confusing aspects of divorce is what to do with last names in the aftermath. For example, in the event that a woman changes her name upon marriage, it is relatively easy for her to revert back to her maiden name upon divorce. However, the situation is much more complex when it
- [When to hire a divorce attorney](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/05/when-to-hire-a-divorce-attorney/) - Going through a divorce is a stressful situation. It also can cause financial troubles, which may make you think about trying to handle the situation yourself without legal help. However, this may not be the best choice. An attorney can be quite beneficial. USA Today explains one of the top reasons you may want to hire
- [Why is your valuation date so important?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/05/why-is-your-valuation-date-so-important/) - As you enter into your divorce proceedings in Birmingham, you expect to have to deal with a number of different details regarding your personal and marital property. Some of these may have a dramatic impact on your chances of securing a favorable settlement, so you should know going in which ones to pay close attention
- [What is uncontested divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/05/what-is-uncontested-divorce/) - Divorce is famously painted as an acrimonious process, but this is not the case all of the time. Some divorces essentially write themselves and do not involve any fighting over the assets. This variety of divorce is an "uncontested divorce." According to Findlaw, couples can file specifically for an uncontested divorce in order to help streamline the process
- [Judges analyze a child's preference based on two factors](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/06/judges-analyze-a-childs-preference-based-on-two-factors/) - Judges look at several factors when determining child custody. His or her decision depends heavily on the best interest of the child, but sometimes the judge may ask a child for his or her preference. According to the Michigan Friend of the Court Bureau, the judge analyzes a child’s ability to state a preference based on
- [What happens to your vacation home in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/06/what-happens-to-your-vacation-home-in-a-divorce/) - Your vacation home can represent many different positive memories in your life. You may have spent happy days with your family during your children’s school breaks. It may have been a relaxing way to get away from the stress of your daily life. However, vacation homes are also valuable property, which can make property division
- [Could your addiction cost you custody of your children?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/06/could-your-addiction-cost-you-custody-of-your-children/) - If you are an addict who is also a parent, you probably realize that you can’t parent your kids to the best of your ability while you are using. However, some addicts are so deeply in denial that they can’t fathom how their addiction to drugs or alcohol can adversely affect their children. The dilemma
- [Can you keep your divorce private?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/06/can-you-keep-your-divorce-private/) - It’s always painful to hang out your family’s dirty laundry in public. If you occupy a fairly elevated position in your community, however, opening your private affairs to public scrutiny can be very damaging to your reputation, your social standing and your business operations. There are ways to keep your divorce private, however. While the
- [Mediation by Zoom: Our new reality](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/06/mediations-by-zoom-our-new-reality/) - During these unique and difficult times, it has been extremely important to adapt all elements of my practice to this new, increasingly virtual reality. One area of my practice that has been turned upside down by COVID-19 is the mediation process. Fortunately, mediating in a digital space, although new, can be effective and even have
- [How can you help your child adjust to divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/07/how-can-you-help-your-child-adjust-to-divorce/) - When you decided to get a divorce, you knew that it would have an impact on your family. Your child is only 13-years-old, and this is a difficult time in their life for many reasons. They’re going through a lot of changes, and this is just one more thing that they need to deal with.
- [First Impression: Returning to the courthouse during the COVID-19 pandemic](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/07/first-impression-returning-to-the-courthouse-during-the-covid-19-pandemic/) - On July 9th, I received an email from the Court’s clerk that stated the following: “This will be held in person. [Judge] expects everyone, including the parties, to appear masked up and ready to proceed to a hearing.” This was the first in-person hearing that I had scheduled in Oakland County Circuit Court since March
- [Taking your spouse to court over your divorce? Use these tips to prepare](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/08/taking-your-spouse-to-court-over-your-divorce-use-these-tips-to-prepare/) - If you have to take your spouse to court over your divorce, you may be frustrated and annoyed. You might have done your best to negotiate with them but not been able to in the end. What should you do to prepare for court? Here are three tips. Get ready by knowing what you want
- [Fighting to keep your full 401(k)](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/09/fighting-to-keep-your-full-401k/) - Past posts on this blog touched upon the fact that your 401(k) becomes subject to property division in your divorce. Having to divide that account up with your ex-spouse may drastically impact your retirement plans in Michigan. The potential of such an impact is often enough for potential clients to ask us here at Eisenberg
- [Study examines the biology of children of divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/09/study-examines-the-biology-of-children-of-divorce/) - In recent decades, many researchers in the fields of psychology and biology have focused much of their work on discovering how our childhood experiences continue to shape us in adulthood. This is certainly a worthwhile subject to explore, since most of us can remember major events or relationships as kids that still impact us to
- [Would you book a photo shoot to commemorate divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/09/would-you-book-a-photo-shoot-to-commemorate-divorce/) - Divorce no longer suffers from the social stigma it once had, but it isn’t usually celebrated, either. In many ways, this makes sense, since most people find divorce to be a difficult and sometimes traumatic experience. There are some, however, who want to view their divorce through a different lens. They may go so far
- [Preparing for a prenuptial agreement](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/09/preparing-for-a-prenuptial-agreement/) - Prenuptial agreements help engaged couples prepare their finances and protect their assets if they ever divorce. These contracts are becoming even more important as spouses are more likely to have equal assets or wives own more property than their soon-to-be husbands. Couples should take precautions so that their prenuptial agreement protects their interests during divorce
- [How courts decide child custody disputes](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/10/how-courts-decide-child-custody-disputes/) - When parents decide to divorce, they may worry about who will get custody of the children. In addition to determining where the child will primarily reside, parents will also have to come up with a visitation agreement that works for the whole family, while keeping the best interests of the child as a top priority.
- [When does child support end?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/10/when-does-child-support-end/) - Child support is an important way for Michigan parents to ensure that their children have everything tangible that they need after a divorce. While children need love, support, and nurturing from their parents, they also need clothing, housing, food, and many other items in order to survive and thrive. Child support is the financial contribution
- [Worried about your prenuptial agreement? It might not be valid](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/11/worried-about-your-prenuptial-agreement-it-might-not-be-valid/) - A prenuptial agreement can be enormously beneficial for your financial wellbeing as you embark on your marriage. But things change, and so do people. This means that there are some instances when hindsight is 20/20 when it comes to a prenuptial agreement. Even if your concerned about how your prenuptial agreement might come back to
- [What rights do unwed fathers have towards their children?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/05/what-rights-do-unwed-fathers-have-towards-their-children/) - When a child is born in wedlock, it is automatically assumed that the couple is the child’s parents. When the parents are unwed though, fathers have to take extra steps to establish paternity and exert their parenting rights. Paternity Fathers who are not married when their child is born have to establish legal paternity. In
- [What is a child support modification?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/06/what-is-a-child-support-modification/) - In nearly all situations, parents are required to financially support their children until they reach adulthood. When a parent is not living with their children, child support helps the children meet their needs. Child support is ordered by the court. It includes payments for necessities and may also include payments for medical, dental and other
- [How should you handle your mortgage in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/08/how-should-you-handle-your-mortgage-in-a-divorce/) - A couple’s home is typically their most substantial asset in a divorce. Deciding what to do with the house and handling its mortgage is an important but complicated property division issue. Potential problems Lenders will consider a couple’s joint mortgage as their shared legal responsibility. Both spouses are responsible for paying off a joint mortgage
- [What happens if my spouse is concealing assets?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/09/what-happens-if-my-spouse-is-concealing-assets/) - When a marriage is going smoothly, it can seem to unnecessarily nosy to want to know every single detail of your spouses whereabouts or financial dealings. But when the mitts come off during a divorce proceeding, one of the most bitter areas of conflict is often in the division of marital property. In Michigan, the
- [The advantages of prenuptial agreements](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/12/the-advantages-of-prenuptial-agreements/) - Many couples are reluctant to enter a prenuptial agreement because they believe that by entering such an agreement, they are essentially planning for divorce. However, with approximately 50 percent of married couples in the United States divorcing, it can be beneficial to plan for the possibility of your marriage ending, even if you think yours
- [How can alimony payments be made?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/02/how-can-alimony-payments-be-made/) - Alimony plays an important role in the post-divorce lives of many Michigan residents. It is the money that some divorced individuals are required to pay to their exes in order to provide them with ongoing support. Not all divorces involve awards or agreements of alimony; some divorces involve two individuals who are financially independent and
- [What are the financial risks of gray divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/04/what-are-the-financial-risks-of-gray-divorce/) - Although divorce usually brings to mind emotional upheaval, stress and often a profound sense of loss, for older couples there will also be a substantial impact on their finances. Divorcing couples who have accumulated wealth over a long period of time will experience greater financial risk than younger couples, as their pooled resources will be
- [What factors are considered when determining child support?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/03/what-factors-are-considered-when-determining-child-support/) - Raising a child is rewarding but also expensive. The costs associated with keeping a child housed, fed, and clothed can be extensive over the period of the child’s adolescence. In Michigan and throughout the country, it generally takes the financial support of both of a child’s parents to provide the youth with what they need
- [3 signs you need to update your Michigan custody order](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/02/3-signs-you-need-to-update-your-michigan-custody-order/) - Your Michigan custody order or parenting time plan breaks down how you share time with your children with their other parent. It also delegates parental authority and financial responsibility to both of you. The Michigan family courts expect that divorced or separated parents will abide by the terms detailed in their custody orders by cooperating
- [What are the best interests of the child for custody decisions?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/02/what-are-the-best-interests-of-the-child-for-custody-decisions/) - Parents in Michigan need to make many tough decisions during a divorce. Making decisions regarding who will receive the home and other assets that they acquired during the marriage can be difficult. However, some of the most difficult decisions that they will need to make involve child custody and parenting time decisions. It is not
- [Is alternative dispute resolution an option for divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/01/is-alternative-dispute-resolution-an-option-for-divorce/) - Divorcing couples may want to consider an option to resolve disputes outside of court, using a process called alternative dispute resolution. There are a few types of alternative dispute resolution that they can consider to decide issues like property division, child custody, spousal support, and other matters. Mediation Mediation is a process where an impartial
- [What should I be concerned about in my gray divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/11/what-should-i-be-concerned-about-in-my-gray-divorce/) - Gray divorces in Michigan and throughout the country are on the rise. A gray divorce is a divorce involving spouses who are over 50 years old. Many couples at this age have been together for decades. This means that the amount of assets involved may be quite higher than for younger couples, whose property division
- [How long will I get alimony?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/03/how-long-will-i-get-alimony/) - Few aspects of divorce are more contentious than alimony. While child support payments may be a difficult subject as well, few dispute the need to pay child support. Alimony can be much more difficult. Unlike with child support, in the state of Michigan there is no specific formula for calculating alimony. It is possible for both
- [Determining alimony in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/01/determining-alimony-in-michigan/) - Married couples can manage their households in many different ways. In some cases, both spouses choose to work outside the home, while in other households, one spouse works part-time or chooses to be a stay-at-home parent. In any case, if the couple chooses to get a divorce, courts make it a priority to ensure that
- [Can ongoing abuse affect child custody?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/09/can-ongoing-abuse-affect-child-custody/) - Now that you have escaped your abusive spouse, you may think you can finally breathe, but, unfortunately, it is very likely some form of abuse will continue. Indeed, researchers consistently find that the vast majority of abuse victims are still victimized after they leave. Of course, the Birmingham, Michigan, abuse changes, but it nonetheless continues.
- [What affects spousal support in Michigan?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/10/what-affects-spousal-support-in-michigan/) - If you and your spouse have been struggling together and you decide that divorce is the best option for you, as sad as that may seem, it may give you both the chance to be happy again. Sometimes being apart is a better answer than being together. There are many different things to consider when
- [How do you pay for your children’s college?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/12/how-do-you-pay-for-your-childrens-college/) - Divorce requires a crystal ball to peer into the future and address issues such as your child’s college expenses. Michigan restricts the duration of child support, but parents can include college costs in their divorce settlement. How costly is this? This issue comes with a price. The yearly cost of an average state college was
- [How can custody talks cover vacations to faraway places?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2024/02/how-can-custody-talks-cover-vacations-to-faraway-places/) - Planning vacations to faraway destinations can be an exciting prospect for families. For divorcing parents in Michigan, it can also present challenges regarding custody arrangements. However, a well-structured parenting plan helps address these challenges so that both parents and children can enjoy memorable vacations without complications. What does flexibility for travel mean in parenting plans?
- [How can high-net-worth couples in Michigan divorce amicably?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2024/02/how-can-high-net-worth-couples-in-michigan-divorce-amicably/) - Divorce is undoubtedly challenging, including for high-net-worth couples. However, an amicable divorce is possible, even with complex financial situations. In Michigan, spouses can take several approaches to ensure a smoother separation process. These approaches should also let them preserve mutual respect and dignity. Why is communication so important? Michigan has about 236,858 millionaire households. High-net-worth
- [Who keeps the retirement account in a Michigan divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/12/who-keeps-the-retirement-account-in-a-michigan-divorce/) - Michigan divorces can be very complex family law matters. Particularly when spouses remained married for many years or have significant shared resources, divorce proceedings may quickly become complicated. Emotions tend to flare, and spouses may have a hard time reaching an agreement on how to handle certain issues. The property that belongs to the spouses
- [How can co-parenting families successfully manage school breaks?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/12/how-can-co-parenting-families-successfully-manage-school-breaks/) - Co-parenting arrangements help parents to share time with their children. With rare exceptions, divorced and separated parents in Michigan tend to share both parenting time and parental responsibilities. Each adult typically receives a percentage of total parenting time or a set number of overnight visits per year. Oftentimes, families have to employ somewhat creative arrangements
- [Why many Michigan couples fight over real property during divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/10/why-many-michigan-couples-fight-over-real-property-during-divorce/) - Couples with significant personal resources may find that divorce is a bit more challenging than couples who rent and have few assets in their own names. The home where people live or the real property they own, including investments and vacation homes, can cause a variety of challenges during Michigan divorce proceedings. Unless people already
- [3 reasons that Michigan spouses choose uncontested divorces](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/09/3-reasons-that-michigan-spouses-choose-uncontested-divorces/) - The Michigan family courts manage plenty of cases each year where spouses fight over their shared assets and their children. Contested or litigated divorces are often what people imagine when they talk about divorce proceedings in Michigan, but not every divorce needs to involve a judge making major determinations on behalf of individuals who are
- [Who has decision-making power in a shared custody scenario?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/08/who-has-decision-making-power-in-a-shared-custody-scenario/) - Michigan parents who separate or divorce often have many challenges ahead of them. They need to construct a schedule for sharing parenting time, which can often dominate negotiations or litigation. From the general division of time with the kids to how the family will share holidays and birthdays, negotiating custody arrangements requires that parents discuss
- [Who pays the credit card debt in a Michigan divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/06/who-pays-the-credit-card-debt-in-a-michigan-divorce/) - Many professionally successful adults in Michigan carry significant credit card balances because their profession requires that they put forward a very polished appearance. Spending habits and the pressure of debt can contribute to the decline of a marital relationship and complicate the divorce process. It is common for divorcing spouses in Michigan to disagree about
- [Certain resources can complicate a high-asset Michigan divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/05/certain-resources-can-complicate-a-high-asset-michigan-divorce/) - Dividing marital property is often the biggest challenge during a Michigan divorce. Couples may spend weeks preparing an inventory of their assets and negotiating about how they will split both their resources and their financial obligations. High-asset couples are more likely than working-class couples to have protracted disagreements and major complications related to property division
- [Why do divorcing Michigan couples turn to mediation](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/04/why-do-divorcing-michigan-couples-turn-to-mediation/) - Divorce is common across Michigan, and even those who thought they would stay with their spouse forever sometimes realize their healthiest or happiest future requires a divorce. Especially when there are children involved, divorcing spouses often want to do what they can to reduce their conflict with one another. Mediation has become an increasingly popular
- [Can someone's shopping habits affect the outcome of a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/03/can-someones-shopping-habits-affect-the-outcome-of-a-divorce/) - With the exception of those who have a marital agreement with their spouse, there can be a lot of negotiating that occurs as spouses attempt to divide both their property and their debts after they’ve decided to divorce. Unless a divorcing couple agrees about what would be appropriate in terms of asset distribution terms, they
- [Discussing a child’s college costs during divorce negotiations](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2023/01/discussing-a-childs-college-costs-during-divorce-negotiations/) - Separating couples with children -- whether minors or young adults – have a lot to talk about during the divorce process. One of those topics should include college costs. Who will pay for your children’s education? Will each parent pay a specific share? Any parent understands the importance of how education benefits their children. This
- [Who gets the vacation house in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/12/who-gets-the-vacation-house-in-a-divorce/) - Property division in a Michigan divorce is a complex process, especially if you and your spouse own more than one property. In addition to your marital residence, you might have a vacation home, cabin or other separate property that is jointly owned. Michigan courts follow the equitable distribution method of property division. This means that
- [Can co-parents make the holidays magical for their child?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/12/can-co-parents-make-the-holidays-magical-for-their-child/) - The winter holidays are upon us, and it is a time filled with family traditions and emotions. You may feel joyful at this time of year, or perhaps sad if you divorced in 2022 and now are facing your first holiday apart from your child. This can be a difficult pill to swallow. Still, you
- [How are investments divided in a Michigan divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/11/how-are-investments-divided-in-a-michigan-divorce/) - As readers of this legal blog likely know, our state uses the equitable distribution theory in the divorce property division process. This means that instead of dividing marital property as close to 50-50 as humanly possible (like in a community property state), Michigan family courts determine a fair split, but what does that mean for
- [What might warrant a deviation from child support guidelines?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/10/what-might-warrant-a-deviation-from-child-support-guidelines/) - In Michigan family law cases, child support is often a topic for disagreement between the parents. While the state has a guideline that dictates how much will be paid and it is based on a formula that factors in the parents’ income, potential income, the child’s basic needs and more, there are times when the
- [How can you find financial security post-divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/10/how-can-you-find-financial-security-post-divorce/) - If you’re like most people, then you’re worried about what your finances are going to look like after your divorce is finalized. It’s a legitimate concern given that you’ll have to give up access to many assets through the property division process, and your household income may be cut in half while your personal expenses
- [How does Michigan handle child support?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/09/how-does-michigan-handle-child-support/) - Michigan residents know that our state plays by its own rules. And this applies to child support as well. The Michigan Child Support Program has an approach that is somewhat unusual compared to those of other states. What is the Michigan's Child Support Program? The Michigan's Child Support Program is designed to meet the needs
- [Can I move away with my child after my divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/08/can-i-move-away-with-my-child-after-my-divorce/) - Divorce is an opportunity for you to get a fresh start in life, and for some this means leaving an old environment behind and moving away. If you have a child, however, you cannot simply pack up and move away with the child on a whim after your divorce. What is required to move away
- [Alimony pendente lite: the lesser-known form of support](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/08/alimony-pendente-lite-the-lesser-known-form-of-support/) - No two divorces are exactly alike. The basic legal issues may be the same from one divorce to the next but there is always variation in the details. Spousal support may be needed in one divorce but not in another. There is one type of spousal support with which you are likely not familiar. Pendente
- [Special considerations for same-sex marriage and divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/08/special-considerations-for-same-sex-marriage-and-divorce/) - The federal mandate for marriage equality also meant divorce equality. However, there are some wrinkles in practical application. How will parents maintain the parent-child relationship? For non-heterosexual couples, parentage is an intentional process that may or may not involve some biological link between the parent and the child. There are a lot of options, but
- [A business valuation is important in a divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/07/a-business-valuation-is-important-in-a-divorce/) - The hard work that goes into building a successful company often isn’t recognized by people who haven’t done it. For some, all that hard work might seem like it was a futile effort because their business is in jeopardy due to a divorce. People who own a company before they get married likely have a
- [What evidence do you need for your alimony claim?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/07/what-evidence-do-you-need-for-your-alimony-claim/) - Are you worried about what your life is going to look like post-divorce? If so, we understand your concerns. You may have enjoyed a high-net-worth marriage that provided you with the safety and security that you needed, but it may seem like that’s all coming to an end with the dissolution of your marriage. But,
- [Watch for sudden business losses before and during divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/07/watch-for-sudden-business-losses-before-and-during-divorce/) - A family-run business that’s successful can provide for your future. You may not realize that this can quickly become a liability, however, if you and your spouse divorce. If your marriage ends, there’s a chance that your ex might try to make it appear as though the business isn’t as successful as you thought. In
- [Can you run the family business with your ex?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/06/can-you-run-the-family-business-with-your-ex/) - You and your ex may have worked hard as a team to build up the family business. If your romantic relationship ends, you may wonder what’s going to happen to that business that you helped to establish and grow. One option that might be possible is to continue running the business with your ex. There are
- [Can you make custody arrangements easier?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/06/can-you-make-custody-arrangements-easier/) - Child custody and parenting plans are complicated, and separating one household into two can be expensive. This is why many Birmingham, Michigan, divorcing parents have been “nesting” over the past few years. Nesting Over the past decade nesting has exploded in popularity. Essentially, nesting refers to the practice of divorcing spouses maintaining their children in
- [Understanding Michigan’s “Friend of the Court” process](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/05/understanding-michigans-friend-of-the-court-process/) - If you are a Michigan parent involved in a family law dispute, you may hear about Friend of the Court and wonder exactly what it is. Friend of the Court is a service that assists the court with custody, parenting time or child support disputes. What does Friend of the Court do? The main purpose
- [How can you spot hidden assets in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/05/how-can-you-spot-hidden-assets-in-a-divorce/) - There are so many different aspects of a divorce that need to be worked through. One of the most important parts of the divorce process is dividing up assets. The first step in property division is for both parties to list all their assets and debts. Only with a full accounting of the marital property
- [What can you do about your small business in divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/04/what-can-you-do-about-your-small-business-in-divorce/) - In every Michigan divorce, the parties must divide their marital property according to state law. The marital property includes nearly all assets and debts the couple acquired during the marriage, so this division of property can involve everything from household items to real estate and retirement accounts. Some of these assets are much easier to
- [How can I shore up my financial future in a high-asset divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/04/how-can-i-shore-up-my-financial-future-in-a-high-asset-divorce/) - For Michigan couples with substantial assets, the concept of divorce can lead to fear about their financial future. This can impact people regardless of their financial situation, but it is especially worrisome for those who have vast assets. Alimony (also referred to as maintenance) from one spouse to the other is designed to ensure the
- [Who is affected by the increased rates of same-sex divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/03/who-is-affected-by-the-increased-rates-of-same-sex-divorce/) - Divorce, regardless of the circumstances, can be a trying time for all involved. Though, with the small rates of divorce among same-sex couples, it was thought that those couples were successfully navigating their marriage journeys. However, as time marches on, same-sex couple divorce rates are rising. Why are divorce rates increasing? For some, they claim
- [Are you ready to divide debt in your divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/03/are-you-ready-to-divide-debt-in-your-divorce/) - A lot of the focus during the property division process is on how to split marital assets. This is important. After all, how you divide the marital estate can have significant ramifications for your financial wellbeing for a long time to come. However, you can’t overlook the importance of debt division during your divorce. It’s
- [How does spousal contribution impact Michigan property division?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/03/how-does-spousal-contribution-impact-michigan-property-division/) - Property division can be a source of discord in many Michigan divorces. This is true whether the parties are in the middle of a high-asset divorce or the case is one of more modest means. Since Michigan is a state that strives for fairness in dividing property by using equitable distribution, it is important to
- [Do not overlook these divorce assets](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/02/do-not-overlook-these-divorce-assets/) - The house and bank and retirement accounts are the most obvious property that a couple must address in their divorce. However, there are other substantial and hidden assets that must be uncovered and dealt with. Restricted stock Spouses in an executive-level corporate position may have restricted stock in their income stream. Although it is future
- [What should be in a postnuptial agreement?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/01/what-should-be-in-a-postnuptial-agreement/) - Couples may have missed the opportunity of entering a prenuptial agreement before their marriage. But their need to address ownership of financial assets in a divorce and responsibilities for their children may still persist. Spouses can still enter a contract after they married to deal with these and other matters. Postnuptial agreement contents A postnuptial
- [Property division and the family home](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2022/01/property-division-and-the-family-home/) - When any Michigan couple divorces, they must divide their marital property according to state law. The marital property can encompass everything from household goods to retirement accounts, and some types of property are much more difficult to divide than others. Ways of dividing a home during divorce One of the primary considerations for many divorcing
- [What is revocation upon divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/12/what-is-revocation-upon-divorce/) - Going through a divorce can be painful. It’s an emotional rollercoaster and you’ll have to deal with a lot of issues you probably haven’t previously given much consideration. Child custody, spousal support and property division are common topics you’ll confront. But there are other, lesser-known consequences of a divorce as well. Michigan law changes some
- [Do grandparents have visitation rights in Michigan?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/11/do-grandparents-have-visitation-rights-in-michigan/) - A child's relationship with his or her grandparents can often contribute to their positive growth and development. In Michigan, grandparents may be able to petition the court for visitation with their grandchild. Seeking visitation A child's grandparent may seek visitation when the child's parents are divorced or separated, the child's parents are deceased, the child's
- [How do I set up child support?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/11/how-do-i-set-up-child-support/) - Child support is a tremendous help and vital necessity to Michigan parents raising a child. The child support process can be complex and sometimes confusing, and even if you know you qualify for child support, it is natural to have questions about getting the process started. The easiest way to get a child support order
- [How do courts make alimony determinations?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/10/how-do-courts-make-alimony-determinations/) - When a couple gets divorced, they will have to adjust to being able to support themselves physically, emotionally, and financially, without their spouse’s involvement. Under Michigan law, the court may determine that one spouse requires alimony to help support them financially after the divorce. Generally, alimony may be awarded to a stay-at-home spouse who has
- [What are some effects that divorce has on children?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/10/what-are-some-effects-that-divorce-has-on-children/) - For married couples with children, the most contentious subject in a divorce is children. Child custody and child support are often the most hotly contested items. And, unfortunately, as divorce becomes more and more of an emotional process, it can take its toll on children. Though, since divorce is so common in the U.S., there
- [How do you split a retirement account in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/10/how-do-you-split-a-retirement-account-in-a-divorce/) - In any Michigan divorce, the parties have to disclose all their assets and debts, and then divide the marital property in accordance with state law. This is always a daunting task, but some types of property are easier to divide than others. It's relatively simple to divide an ordinary checking account: Just close the account
- [Why is it important to establish paternity and how do I do it?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/10/why-is-it-important-to-establish-paternity-and-how-do-i-do-it/) - Not all children are born to married parents. Sometimes a child is born to parents who are in a committed relationship with one another but are not married. Other times the child’s parents ended their relationship before the child’s birth and are no longer together. This can cause issues with regards to child support and
- [How is child support enforced in Michigan?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/09/how-is-child-support-enforced-in-michigan/) - Child support enforcement is an important topic for many parents, including parents who are paying child support and those who are receiving child support. For that reason, parents should understand how child support orders are enforced through the family law process in Michigan. Multiple means of enforcement The state has several methods for enforcing child
- [What benefits do I retain if my military spouse and I divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/08/what-benefits-do-i-retain-if-my-military-spouse-and-i-divorce/) - Every divorce comes with questions and complications. Child support, property division and spousal support are frequent issues. But just as being a military spouse presents unique challenges, so too does it present unique questions. Will I lose my commissary and exchange privileges? The Uniformed Services Former Spouse Protection Act (USFSPA) addresses many concerns of a
- [Is the marital standard of living key in an alimony dispute?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/08/is-the-marital-standard-of-living-key-in-an-alimony-dispute/) - Alimony disputes can have massive financial implications for all parties involved. That’s why, regardless of which side of the dispute you find yourself on, you need to know the law and diligently craft the legal arguments that support your position. Although you might be able to negotiate a resolution to this dispute, you should always
- [Tips for weathering a gray divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/07/tips-for-weathering-a-gray-divorce/) - Divorce can be challenging, even when amicable. Though, divorcing later in life in a gray divorce is a much more complicated process because the spouses have decades of financial accounts and assets to split. Indeed, as spouses get closer to retirement, the property division process can become much more problematic for their post-divorce lives. Does
- [Do you know your rights in international child abduction cases?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/07/do-you-know-your-rights-in-international-child-abduction-cases/) - The auto industry is a major part of the history of Detroit, and it is still the case that many people can make good money as executives in the auto industry. Being an auto executive can be a lucrative career, but the long hours and frequent travel around the world can take a toll on
- [How should you prepare for alimony negotiations?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/07/how-should-you-prepare-for-alimony-negotiations/) - A spouse’s financial future may change radically when their marriage is over, and they lose financial support. Negotiating for spousal support, commonly known as alimony, requires preparation. Your situation Factors like the payor and payee’s gross and net salary, their assets and marriage length help determine whether there is support and its length. A spouse’s
- [Is parental gatekeeping harming your child?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/06/is-parental-gatekeeping-harming-your-child/) - Parental alienation is a growing problem throughout Michigan and the country as a whole. This alienation occurs when one parent manipulates their child so as to distance him or her from his or her other parent. Some consider this programming to be a form of child abuse, which is why it is imperative to take
- [The Gates turn to separation agreement to divide property](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/05/the-gates-turn-to-separation-agreement-to-divide-property/) - Many couples acquire several high-value assets throughout the course of their marriage, making property division more difficult upon divorce. However, Bill and Melinda Gates give new meaning to the phrase ‘high asset divorce.’ The former Microsoft CEO Bill Gates, with a reported net worth of at least $134 billion, and his wife Melinda recently announced
- [Expect more online hearings in the future](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/04/expect-more-online-hearings-in-the-future/) - For 20 years now, American life has been increasingly lived online. That trend accelerated extremely rapidly last year, as suddenly many workers started telecommuting from home and schools went online. Courts, too, had to adjust to this new reality. Now, many schools are returning to in-person learning and some workers are returning to the office.
- [How can mediation help resolve issues in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/04/how-can-mediation-help-resolve-issues-in-a-divorce/) - If couples are going through a divorce and would like assistance to resolve outstanding issues, they may want to consider mediation. Mediation is a process where both parties meet with a neutral mediator whose goal is to help them find a fair agreement they can both accept. It is intended to be non-adversarial and each
- [What can I do to gather evidence for my divorce case?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/04/what-can-i-do-to-gather-evidence-for-my-divorce-case/) - Regardless of whether you think you can settle your divorce amicably through negotiation or it’s going to resolve through litigation, you need to be prepared to present your case to a judge. Only then can you obtain a full grasp on your case and put forth the strongest arguments you can under the circumstances. This
- [Can you hold your child’s other parent in contempt?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/03/can-you-hold-your-childs-other-parent-in-contempt/) - Unlike property division, which is settled once your divorce decree is entered, child custody issues can linger all the way up until the time that your children become adults. Changes in circumstances may warrant child custody modification, but what do you do if your child’s other parent simply isn’t abiding by a custody order that’s
- [What do you need to know about child support?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/03/what-do-you-need-to-know-about-child-support/) - When some people think about the legal issue of child support, they oftentimes do so in the context of a divorce case. But, a child support issue can arise between parents who were never married as well. Whether it is in the midst of a divorce case or not, the issue of child support certainly
- [Life after divorce with Jill Biden and Kelly Clarkson](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/03/life-after-divorce-with-jill-biden-and-kelly-clarkson/) - For those thinking of divorce, a primary concern is likely what life looks like after divorce. The fear of never finding love again or never getting over the heartbreak can be a terrible feeling. It is something that many divorcees struggle with, even celebrities like, First Lady, Jill Biden, and three-time Grammy-winning singer, Kelly Clarkson.
- [How is parenting time decided in Michigan?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/02/how-is-parenting-time-decided-in-michigan/) - When a child’s parents divorce or separate, parenting time is decided by the court and refers to the time a child spends with each parent. It is decided with the child’s best interests in mind. In Michigan, the law recognizes that it is important for parents to maintain a strong relationship with their child. The
- [New trend, divorce registries](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/02/new-trend-divorce-registries/) - At this point, in most of our lives, we have at least heard of a marriage registry. Even if we have not participated in one, we have likely scene it advertised on TV. But, a new trend is emerging, the divorce registry. Divorce registry? Well, it has no exactly caught on at major retailers yet,
- [What is equitable distribution?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/02/what-is-equitable-distribution/) - A divorce ends a marriage, but it represents much more in the lives of the parties. It breaks apart family bonds and forces parents and kids into custody and visitation arrangements. It forces parties to look at what they own and how they can divide it so that each takes what they need from their
- [What do I have to do if I have to move with my children?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/02/what-do-i-have-to-do-if-i-have-to-move-with-my-children/) - For many parents in the greater Detroit area, the thought of a move is itself a stressful proposition. It takes a lot of work to pack up one’s belongings, update records and relocate, sometimes to a different state or a city hundreds of miles away. For parents who are subject to child custody orders, a
- [Does the child have a say in child custody matters in Michigan?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/01/does-the-child-have-a-say-in-child-custody-matters-in-michigan/) - Family law matters can be complex and difficult for Michigan residents. This is true whether the sides are on relatively friendly terms or are in constant battle over every issue in the case. Some aspects are more emotionally wrenching than others and could spark rampant disagreement that can escalate. One frequently contentious part of a
- [What do I have to prove to get a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/01/what-do-i-have-to-prove-to-get-a-divorce/) - Sometimes, people believe that to get a divorce, one has to have a reason, or prove something, like the other spouse cheated or committed some wrong. However, our state is what is known as a “no-fault” divorce state. This means that if a spouse wants a divorce, they do not have to “prove” anything, like
- [Should you “stay together for the kids” rather than divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/01/should-you-stay-together-for-the-kids-rather-than-divorce/) - Divorce can be difficult for children, both in the short and long-term. This may prompt many parents in the Birmingham area to “stay together for the kids” even if their marriage is unhappy. However, is this really a better alternative than seeking a divorce? Some research suggests not. Divorce does have an effect on children
- [What should you consider if you want to settle your divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2021/01/what-should-you-consider-if-you-want-to-settle-your-divorce/) - You and your spouse may have been financially successful during the course of your marriage, but your marriage itself may not have been so successful. Does every high-asset divorce in the Detroit area need to be a high-conflict affair pitting one spouse against the other in court? Not necessarily. Couples may be able to amicably
- [Residential home ownership options in a divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/12/residential-home-ownership-options-in-a-divorce/) - While getting ownership of the residential home is considered a primary aim in property division in Michigan, this option may not always be the most practical one. Couples going through a divorce need to understand how much money goes into maintaining the house and its upkeep. They need to figure out if it is sustainable
- [What is a separate maintenance action?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/12/what-is-a-separate-maintenance-action/) - Like other states, Michigan has a law that allows married couples to receive some protection from court if they want to live in separate yet remain legally married. Although this often gets referred to as legal separation, Michigan law calls this separate maintenance. Separate maintenance in many respects works like a divorce. If a couple
- [Gather financial information before seeking a divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/12/gather-financial-information-before-seeking-a-divorce/) - Deciding when to end a marriage can be one of the most devastating experiences of your life. However, it’s essential that you take every step possible to put yourself in the best financial position for your new life. Achieving a fair outcome with your soon-to-be-ex often depends upon the actions you take before filing or
- [How is a shared business divided in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/12/how-is-a-shared-business-divided-in-a-divorce/) - Divorce can be difficult, especially when the parties involved share a business. There are a few options to consider when dividing a business that can make the process easier. How do I know if the business I own with my spouse is a martial asset or separate property? Generally, if the business was owned by
- [What happens when a parent falls behind in child support?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/11/what-happens-when-a-parent-falls-behind-in-child-support/) - For many noncustodial parents, child support orders can feel like a heavy burden. Some may feel like they are working hard, but not getting ahead because every month they have to give money to the custodial parent. Their financial frustrations feed into their lingering resentments against their ex, and it can turn into an ugly
- [How can you avoid tax pitfalls during divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/11/how-can-you-avoid-tax-pitfalls-during-divorce/) - Thinking of what is fair in a divorce can seem daunting, especially when it involves property division and custody. Michigan is an equitable division state, which means that property is not divided 50/50, but it is distributed fairly according to the judge. Factors that a judge takes into account include whether or not one spouse
- [How ADR methods are changing divorce in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/11/how-adr-methods-are-changing-divorce-in-michigan/) - When we think of divorce, it often brings to mind emotionally charged and sometimes traumatic proceedings in which a couple faces off while the children are caught in the middle. The truth is, divorce often manifests the long-simmering domestic problems that existed during the marriage, exposed in full view during a litigated divorce proceeding. The
- [Can a child’s preference be a key factor with child custody?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/10/can-a-childs-preference-be-a-key-factor-with-child-custody/) - When a Michigan couple gets a divorce, child custody is one of the most common reasons for an extended dispute. Whether the parties are amicable or contentious, the decision as to where the child will live the bulk of the time and how visitation rights will be handled can be complex and emotionally draining. There
- [What are the ways to divide a family home during divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/10/what-are-the-ways-to-divide-a-family-home-during-divorce/) - Property division is an important part of the divorce process and can also be challenging for many divorcing couples. One of the many challenges divorcing couples can face is what to do to divide a home during the divorce process. Sell the home and divide the proceeds One option for dividing a home is for
- [What’s a business worth in divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/09/whats-a-business-worth-in-divorce/) - Divorce isn’t an easy process to go through, and it can be especially hard on those with a family business. Plenty of options await owners, but they all require understanding what you’ve got. Husband and wife teams own 3.7 million small businesses across the country. Teamwork can be an essential part of running those businesses,
- [How can I help my child adjust to school after my divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/09/how-can-i-help-my-child-adjust-to-school-after-my-divorce/) - Parents in Michigan who divorced over the summer may be concerned about how their child will adjust to the new school year after such a major change. Parents want to see their child thrive, even though the parents are no longer in a relationship with one another. The following are some tips to help children
- [How do courts divide assets in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/08/how-do-courts-divide-assets-in-a-divorce/) - Michigan courts follow the rules of equitable distribution when dividing assets in a divorce. According to BankRate, equitable distribution means a fair division of the value of assets but not necessarily an equal division of the assets. You should note that the court will only divide your assets if you and your spouse cannot come to an
- [How do you modify a Michigan child support order?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/08/how-do-you-modify-a-michigan-child-support-order/) - Jobs and families change over time, and sometimes, situations may arise that call into question the suitability of your current child support arrangement. Maybe you are the parent receiving support, and now your child’s needs have changed and you wish to collect more to support him or her. Conversely, maybe you were the parent responsible
- [Can you homeschool your kids despite your divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/08/can-you-homeschool-your-kids-despite-your-divorce/) - Some parents decide that public schooling isn’t a good fit for their kids, and they don’t want to pursue a private school. These parents might decide that homeschooling is the best option for their kids. But what happens if the parents divorce? There are several factors that might impact whether you’re allowed to homeschool the
- [What factors go into determining alimony?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/07/what-factors-go-into-determining-alimony/) - You and your spouse have the option of determining alimony arrangements for yourselves when you divorce. If you are able to come to an agreement, the court will make it official by approving it. However, if you and your spouse cannot come to an agreement yourselves, it is up to the court to make the
- [Back child support could show on your credit report](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/07/back-child-support-could-show-on-your-credit-report/) - It is not uncommon for even well-meaning and responsible parents to fall behind on child support. The person may lose employment or other immediate financial obligations might arise. When that unpaid child support remains in arrears for a certain period of time, many states then report that to the credit bureaus. According to the Michigan
- [What happens to the family business in divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/07/what-happens-to-the-family-business-in-divorce/) - If you have a family-owned business and are going through a divorce, you might find that determining the outcome of the company is one of the more difficult decisions you have to make. There are several options that are on the table for most companies. One of the first things that you have to think
- [Should I settle or go to trial?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/06/should-i-settle-or-go-to-trial/) - Most wish to get through divorce as quickly as they can, but sometimes this just is not possible. If you believe that your ex-spouse is trying to get more than his or her fair share out of the divorce settlement or is proposing unfavorable custody terms, you may wish to take your divorce to trial.
- [Is your ex illegally hiding assets from the divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/06/is-your-ex-illegally-hiding-assets-from-the-divorce/) - Concealing assets during the property division part of divorce is not only unethical, it’s also illegal and, sadly, it happens all too often. With how complex some couple’s financial portfolios are — incomes, houses, vacation properties, stocks, pensions, businesses and more — it’s not surprising that there are many ways assets can be shuffled into
- [Does nesting make divorce easier?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/05/does-nesting-make-divorce-easier/) - Divorce is a difficult process that has even more complications when you have children together. Figuring out child custody arrangements might take a long time until you settle in to the right fit. Nesting is an arrangement in which children stay in the house while their parents take turns moving in and out. Here is
- [How do you plan on handling credit card debt in your divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/05/how-do-you-plan-on-handling-credit-card-debt-in-your-divorce/) - You likely have several items on your divorce checklist, especially for finances and assets. What do you plan on doing about credit card debt shared with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse? To help, see what U.S. News & World Report recommends. Make sure you do not make yourself responsible for your ex's financial obligations. How do you determine responsibility? One
- [Is arbitration the same as mediation?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/04/is-arbitration-the-same-as-mediation/) - If you are looking for a different way to end your marriage than through an expensive court proceeding, you can use an alternative means, such as mediation, to complete your divorce. These methods can save you money and lessen the emotional turmoil involved with divorcing. However, alternative resolution methods like arbitration and mediation are not
- [When is it a better option to go to trial in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/04/when-is-it-a-better-option-to-go-to-trial-in-a-divorce/) - Most divorcing couples understand that working together to divide assets and establish a custody arrangement and parenting plan is a quicker and less costly way to settle their divorce. However, that road may not always be accessible when couples reach an impasse over what constitutes a fair share of marital property, or when one parent
- [What is a QDRO?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/04/what-is-a-qdro/) - If you and your spouse are getting a divorce and have one or more employer-sponsored 401K plans, you may well end up having to split some or all of the money in those accounts as part of your property division settlement. Splitting a retirement account in a divorce is not quite as straightforward as splitting
- [Do I have to pay health insurance as part of a support order?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/04/do-i-have-to-pay-health-insurance-as-part-of-a-support-order/) - When establishing a child support order you may see an order to pay for your child's health insurance, even if you are a noncustodial parent. If you have not had a child support order before, this may seem confusing and you may wonder if this is standard procedure. Health insurance is a standard part of
- [Opting for rehabilitative spousal support](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/03/opting-for-rehabilitative-spousal-support/) - The current trend is favoring couples to substitute permanent spousal support with rehabilitative spousal support. The courts are now encouraging couples to go for the process of temporarily supporting one spouse while he or she tries to become financially stable and self-supporting. There are 11 factors which the courts use to determine whether permanent or
- [Spousal support obligation ended by appellate court](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/03/spousal-support-obligation-ended-by-appellate-court/) - It goes without saying that divorce proceedings can be incredibly complex. Most of those people in Birmingham working through them, however, likely believe that once the court finalizes their agreement, the challenges are over and no new surprises are coming their way. When it comes to divorce, however, that is rarely the case. Indeed, divorce
- [Does child support affect alimony?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/03/does-child-support-affect-alimony/) - In a divorce, the higher-earning spouse will often have to make support payments to the other spouse. These payments may be alimony or child support. In some cases, you may have to pay both. Courts typically favor child support over alimony because child support is a responsibility whereas alimony is not. You do not have
- [What happens to an unemployed spouse during divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/03/what-happens-to-an-unemployed-spouse-during-divorce/) - You and your spouse may no longer see eye to eye, and other events may have made it clear that divorce is the only way to move forward. With much of the process unknown, you are not sure how things will end up for you, especially because you left your profession years ago to care
- [How do you handle artwork in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/03/how-do-you-handle-artwork-in-a-divorce/) - Divorcing couples are in the position of making decision after decision during this agonizing process. When there are minor children involved, custody and support are often the primary focus. Then there is the question of selling your primary residence or whether one of you stays there while the other moves out. You furthermore need to
- [What are my rights as an unmarried father?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/02/what-are-my-rights-as-an-unmarried-father/) - There is no doubt that an unmarried mother in Michigan has full legal custody of her child. When a child is born within a marriage, again, there is no question of parental rights: the mother’s spouse has automatic equal custody. For unmarried fathers, however, the situation is not so clear-cut. If you are an unmarried
- [How can I co-parent effectively?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/02/how-can-i-co-parent-effectively/) - Co-parenting is the most common choice for custody-sharing after divorce in the modern courtroom, extenuating circumstances notwithstanding. However, despite the many noted positives of co-parenting, it can be a difficult situation for parents who do not get along very well. Fortunately, there are ways to create a co-parenting relationship that prioritizes the kids. According to
- [What is a collaborative divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/02/what-is-a-collaborative-divorce/) - When many people picture the concept of "divorce," they imagine high-powered lawyers going toe-to-toe in a courtroom and a lot of emotional drama wrapped up in a high-stakes game of financial tug of war. The reality is that divorce does not have to be this dramatic, and, in fact, you will end up saving a
- [Relocation and child support payments](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/02/relocation-and-child-support-payments/) - Parents who struggle with child support have a lot of different issues to work through. Some find themselves unable to pay what they owe because of losing their job and our law office knows that many people face these hurdles as a result of health crises. Sadly, falling behind on child support leads to various
- [When does child support deviate from the formula?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/01/when-does-child-support-deviate-from-the-formula/) - To make sure children have the financial support that they need, the Michigan courts apply a formula that includes both parents' incomes. However, your situation may have unique factors that affect how much child support your child needs, or how much support you can provide. Here is what the State Court Administrative Office says about
- [How much alimony should a woman over 50 plan to receive?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/01/how-much-alimony-should-a-woman-over-50-plan-to-receive/) - Preparing for a divorce when you are over the age of 50 requires careful planning because your financial circumstances may change significantly. While you could generally expect to receive alimony or spousal support, it may not be in the amount that maintains your current standard of living unless you press for the amount you really
- [Can you move away with your kids?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/01/can-you-move-away-with-your-kids/) - Even after your divorce, Michigan family courts continue to try to emphasize consistency within your individual family unit. This usually means ensuring that both you and your ex-spouse retain prominent roles in your children’s lives. Those roles will almost certainly be impacted, however, should you choose to move away with the kids. According to Michigan’s Child
- [Managing shared debt during a divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2020/01/managing-shared-debt-during-a-divorce/) - To some degree, debt is part of everyday life for most people in Michigan. Few residents can afford to buy a house or even a car without taking out a loan to pay for it. People commonly carry other forms of debt as well like credit cards, medical bills and more. When a couple gets
- [Find hidden assets during the discovery process](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/find-hidden-assets-during-the-discovery-process/) - It is common for one person to feel they are drawing the short straw in a Michigan divorce. This is especially true if there are multiple properties, retirement and bank accounts involved. If you are negotiating a divorce settlement, you may have concerns about whether your soon-to-be-ex is hiding assets. At Eisenberg & Spilman, PLLC
- [How can you modify your child support order?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/how-can-you-modify-your-child-support-order/) - Often, after a Michigan divorce and child support order, you are bound to the agreement. If you are under order to pay child support, it is crucial that you do not miss a payment. Unfortunately, if you have a financial hardship, this may prove to be difficult. If you cannot pay child support, you need
- [Can you collect overdue child support payments?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/can-you-collect-overdue-child-support-payments/) - After the dust settles in your child custody case and the judge orders child support, you may feel relief. Unfortunately, for many Michigan parents, child support payments may become overdue. If your ex-spouse does not pay his or her fair share, do you have any recourse? The Friend of the Court, according to Michigan Department
- [Handling your portion of a 401k](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/handling-your-portion-of-a-401k/) - For all of the elements that you may have been anticipating going into your divorce proceedings in Birmingham, dividing up your ex-spouse’s 401k may not have been one of them. Yes, retirement accounts are often viewed as personal assets, yet the contributions made to such accounts typically come from shared income (making them marital assets).
- [Is your spouse hiding assets?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/is-your-spouse-hiding-assets/) - As a couple in Michigan who has decided to get a divorce, you and your spouse have a lot of hurdles to jump. Not only that, as a couple with high assets, you could be facing struggles unique to people in your position. For example, it is more common in high asset divorces for a
- [How can you lessen the impact of divorce on your child?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/how-can-you-lessen-the-impact-of-divorce-on-your-child/) - When Michigan couples decide to divorce, it affects not only the spouses but also their children. The psychological impact of divorce on children is a well-studied phenomenon. It may help to understand what your children could go through and how you can minimize the negative effects. What is the psychological impact of divorce? No matter
- [Tax refund offset: A way to collect past due child support](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/12/tax-refund-offset-a-way-to-collect-past-due-child-support/) - Many single parents in Michigan must make ends meet without receiving child support from their exes. Sometimes, the noncustodial parent may only owe a small portion of the total child support payments. Other times, the parents may owe almost the full amount due to the custodial parent. Some people get away with not paying child
- [How are spousal assets allocated in divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/how-are-spousal-assets-allocated-in-divorce/) - If you are about to undergo divorce proceedings in Michigan, you might have some questions about alimony and how it works. To the uninitiated, alimony has an aura of mystery about it, so it is not unusual for people to have a few misconceptions about it. The term alimony refers to a spousal support payment,
- [What is a postnuptial agreement?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/what-is-a-postnuptial-agreement/) - Most people have heard of prenuptial agreements, but if you are heading toward a high-asset divorce, it is likely a little late to be forming one of those at this point. However, more and more couples in Michigan and across the United States are seeing the benefits of creating postnuptial agreements. Whether you believe you
- [How can I help my children through divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/how-can-i-help-my-children-through-divorce/) - Divorce is no picnic for the people going through it, but it is not only the couples themselves that are affected by this process. Children can become pawns in divorce and this can be very difficult for them. In order for your children to successfully cope and manage with your divorce, it is paramount that
- [Should we wait until after the holidays to file for divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/should-we-wait-until-after-the-holidays-to-file-for-divorce/) - With the holidays fast approaching, couples in Michigan often set aside their problems for the time being. Many parents who know divorce is imminent do not want to disrupt celebrations for the children, so many wait to file for divorce until the New Year. Even if this is the case, it is never too soon
- [What is a grey divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/11/what-is-a-grey-divorce/) - Like many older couples throughout Michigan, you and your spouse have probably been in a partnership for several decades. Now, despite the children being out of the house and a number of grandchildren or even great-grandchildren, you may have decided that the connection is no longer there and you would like to experience life on
- [Can changes to one’s work routine cause marital problems?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/10/can-changes-to-ones-work-routine-cause-marital-problems/) - Marital problems can have many causes, whether one partner is unfaithful, or a couple simply cannot see eye to eye on key issues. However, even seemingly minor changes in one’s life can result in problems within their personal relationships, especially their marriage. It is important to be mindful of these issues, especially if you or
- [How does Michigan treat pets custody in divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/05/how-does-michigan-treat-pets-custody-in-divorce/) - When you get a divorce in Birmingham and you have deep disagreements over which one of you should get the family’s dog or cat, you might expect the Oakland County court to have in place a method for settling your dispute. But the reality is that Michigan is just one of the many states that
- [When is lump sum alimony a good idea?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2019/05/when-is-lump-sum-alimony-a-good-idea/) - In some cases, a spouse the court orders to pay spousal support may wish to simply pay the full alimony amount up front – a “lump sum” alimony payment. They avoid the frustration of making a payment every month, and both parties can move on. A lump sum has a few advantages for the spouse
- [Can we keep details of our divorce private?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/10/can-we-keep-details-of-our-divorce-private/) - When affluent people get divorced, there can be a lot of financial information and resources involved in the process. Parties must disclose all the details of their assets and liabilities, and there can be discussions regarding business ownership, property rights and investments. This information is critical in ensuring parties resolve various matters like property division
- [What happens to all our personal property in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/10/what-happens-to-all-our-personal-property-in-a-divorce/) - Couples typically acquire countless personal items during their marriage, from furniture and computers to artwork and jewelry. Spouses buy books, gaming consoles and household appliances. If that couple divorces, these and other personal property items can be eligible for division. Dividing personal property can be more complicated than people expect, even though the items are
- [What factors will determine whether I will collect alimony?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/09/what-factors-will-determine-whether-i-will-collect-alimony/) - Spousal support, or alimony, can be a contentious matter in Michigan divorces. Often, one person feels entitled to this financial support and the other person has every intention of avoiding this responsibility, which makes it exceedingly difficult to reach agreements. So, how do you (or the courts) make a decision on spousal support? Many factors
- [Why is it important to establish paternity?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/07/why-is-it-important-to-establish-paternity/) - Legally identifying parentage is crucial, whether you are a mother, a presumed father or an alleged father. Below, we explain a few of the reasons why it can be important to establish paternity. We also provide some basic information on the paternity laws and process here in Michigan. Reasons to establish paternity Establishing paternity legally
- [What happens if I start dating during my divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/06/what-happens-if-i-start-dating-during-my-divorce/) - Getting divorced can be a painful process, even if you are ready to end the marriage and find happiness in a new relationship. And sometimes, the act or effort to move on can actually make the process more complicated. Dating during a divorce is something a lot of people wonder about, so it is important
- [Can I travel with my child this summer if I share custody?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/05/can-i-travel-with-my-child-this-summer-if-i-share-custody/) - Summer is nearly here, and that means kids will soon be out of school and families may be gearing up for vacations. As exciting or relaxing as you hope an upcoming trip will be, it can become the source of bitter disputes if you share custody of the children with whom you are traveling. In
- [Which factors decrease the likelihood of receiving alimony?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/05/which-factors-decrease-the-likelihood-of-receiving-alimony/) - The transition out of marriage is a difficult one for most people. After all, it is a challenge to untangle lives, rebuild a sense of stability and start this new chapter. This is especially true for a person who was financially dependent on his or her spouse. If you are in this situation, then you
- [Could activity online jeopardize division of assets in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/05/could-activity-online-jeopardize-division-of-assets-in-a-divorce/) - During a divorce, people often turn to online resources. Maybe they vent about an ex under a pseudonym on a website, post pictures on Instagram to invite supportive comments or seek companionship through a dating app. However, it is crucial that you use caution if you decide to engage in these or other online activities.
- [Looking for a less disruptive housing arrangement for your kids?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/04/looking-for-a-less-disruptive-housing-arrangement-for-your-kids/) - If you're considering of involved in a divorce with kids, you may be dreading the prospect of sharing parenting responsibilities with your ex. Even if you're able to work well together as co-parents, you will still be disrupting your children's lives to a great extent simply because you will be moving into separate households. Now,
- [Are your pets property to be divided in a divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/04/are-your-pets-property-to-be-divided-in-a-divorce/) - It's a serious question. Traditionally, Fido and Whiskers have been viewed by the courts as nothing more than property that must be divided equitably in divorce. As more people come to believe that their pets are part of the family, however, the more contentious the issue has become. "I have clients who have worked together
- [After divorce, can family courts say whether kids play football?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/03/after-divorce-can-family-courts-say-whether-kids-play-football/) - Football is a way of life for many families in Michigan. However, there is growing evidence that repeated concussions can cause serious brain injuries, and that such injuries may be more severe among those who begin playing tackle football before age 12. Even for those who begin playing as teenagers, multiple concussions may cause lifelong
- [Are you sure your marriage is over?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/02/are-you-sure-your-marriage-is-over/) - Though you might be frustrated and unhappy in your marriage, there may be some issues that have you wondering if it might be better for you to stay together rather than file for divorce. One of these, changes to the way spousal support will be taxed, may have you considering other options. The changes make spousal
- [How much child support was Michigan 'deadbeat' expected to pay?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/02/how-much-child-support-was-michigan-deadbeat-expected-to-pay/) - A Michigan man, one of the United States' most wanted child support "deadbeats" has just been caught in Calgary, Alberta. Joseph Stroup, who was living in Alberta under the assumed name "Joop Cousteau," was caught by a Calgary restaurant owner when he seemed to be running a personal injury scam. According to Global News Radio,
- [What is a qualified domestic relations order?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/02/what-is-a-qualified-domestic-relations-order/) - If you or your spouse has a pension, 401(k) plan or IRA, you will need to divide them in the event of a divorce. You can agree to divide these as part of your settlement, or a judge can divide them if your divorce goes to trial. In order for the division to be binding
- [Are dads spending enough time with their children?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/02/are-dads-spending-enough-time-with-their-children/) - In most cases, Michigan law officially favors child custody and parenting arrangements that promote a strong bond with both parents. That doesn't mean that every child custody and parenting order will split the child's time 50/50 between the parents, as there are often other factors to take into consideration. Still, children are generally better off
- [Is your spouse hiding assets in your divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/02/is-your-spouse-hiding-assets-in-your-divorce/) - Whether you settle or go to trial, a divorce is a legal proceeding. That means that each party has a legal duty to honestly and fully disclose all information material to the case. That includes being honest about your assets and debts. Unfortunately, as many as a third of U.S. adults who have combined assets
- [Going to divorce court? What 9 mistakes could cost you the most?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/02/going-to-divorce-court-what-9-mistakes-could-cost-you-the-most/) - Many divorces are settled, but if you can't resolve all of your issues between yourselves, you can have a judge resolve them for you. If you do go to trial, preparation and etiquette are key. Their lack could cost you in terms of credibility and even affect your settlement. Here are nine tips to keep
- [How could your alimony negotiations change under the new tax law?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/02/how-could-your-alimony-negotiations-change-under-the-new-tax-law/) - The recent tax law, the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, changed the federal deductibility of alimony. In divorces finalized during 2018, alimony is tax-deductible for the payor and taxable income for the recipient. On Jan. 1, 2019, however, the new tax law changes that. For divorces finalized after that date, alimony will be neither tax-deductible
- [What are some circumstances that could invalidate a prenup?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/what-are-some-circumstances-that-could-invalidate-a-prenup/) - Last week, we wrote a post about prenuptial agreements and the importance of this contract in family law and high asset divorces. Additionally, we talked about the many different topics you can, and can't, include in a prenuptial agreement. Today, we want to continue that discussion by talking about the other side of prenuptial agreements:
- [How can I make my high-value divorce easier?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/how-can-i-make-my-high-value-divorce-easier/) - When it comes to divorce in Metro Detroit, the more money and assets involved, the greater the stakes. High-value divorces have a higher level of intensity and drama than many lower asset divorces. Divorce is not always easy, and the issues involved are generally dependent on the number and value of wealth and assets. However,
- [How a prenuptial agreement factors into divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/how-a-prenuptial-agreement-factors-into-divorce/) - Property division will be a major issue in any divorce, but especially one that involves a significant number of assets -- or assets of tremendous value. Given the importance of this issue during divorce, it is important for newlyweds or people who are considering walking down the aisle with their significant other to think about
- [Will new alimony law be a benefit or disadvantage for you?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/will-new-alimony-law-be-a-benefit-or-disadvantage-for-you/) - The new tax bill and its implications on divorces might have caused confusion for many couples in Michigan and other states. Those who were considering divorce might have tried to get it done before the New Year. However, the new alimony tax laws will only apply to divorces that are finalized in 2019. Authorities say
- [Practical ways to manage child support payments](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/practical-ways-to-manage-child-support-payments/) - Most parents in Michigan want what is best for their children -- even after a divorce. Concerned non-custodial parents may not see child support obligations as burdens but an opportunity for them to play positive roles in the lives of their children. Neglecting to pay child support can adversely affect the child, and recognizing the
- [How are the different types of debt handled in property division?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/how-are-the-different-types-of-debt-handled-in-property-division/) - Yours, mine or ours? That is the primary question when it comes to property division in a Michigan divorce. Couples have two options: they can either pay off all their debts before filing for the divorce, or they can have the court decide who will be responsible for which debts. However, regardless of the ruling
- [Child Custody: What are the rights of a non-custodial parent?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/child-custody-what-are-the-rights-of-a-non-custodial-parent/) - In most divorce cases in Michigan, both parents want what is best for their children. However, joint child custody is not necessarily perfect for every situation, and the parent who ends up being the non-custodial parent may want to make sure he or she remains a part of the child's life. For this reason, it
- [What are the enforcement methods for unpaid alimony?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2018/01/what-are-the-enforcement-methods-for-unpaid-alimony/) - Divorced people in Michigan are often dependent on the spousal support they receive from a former spouse -- even if it is only until he or she has established a regular income. However, payments may be withheld, leaving the question of possible enforcement. That depends on whether the court ordered alimony to be paid, and
- [Some issues might be left unaddressed during property division](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/12/some-issues-might-be-left-unaddressed-during-property-division/) - When people in Michigan file for divorce, they may not realize that there will be a host of challenging choices and decisions to be made. Adequate preparation before entering into property division negotiations is necessary in pursuing post-divorce financial stability. Without professional guidance, detrimental errors may be made. One mistake often made is a spouse
- [How many Bitcoin investments are revealed in high asset divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/12/how-many-bitcoin-investments-are-revealed-in-high-asset-divorce/) - Any person in the higher income groups of Michigan who is in the throes of a divorce might have concerns of his or her soon-to-be ex hiding assets to avoid sharing it. Reportedly, the rapidly rising value of the cryptocurrency Bitcoin is making it one of the preferred ways of concealment in a high asset
- [The role of the QDRO in property division](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/12/the-role-of-the-qdro-in-property-division/) - Ending a marriage is a complicated process that needs cautious planning and careful consideration of various aspects. Any Michigan resident who is in the throes of a first divorce will likely be unfamiliar with many procedures, and having qualified advisers in his or her corner might be invaluable. One crucial matter that is often neglected
- [High asset divorce need a quality divorce team as support](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/12/high-asset-divorce-need-a-quality-divorce-team-as-support/) - Most divorces are emotionally and financially taxing for both spouses. However, there are particular financial challenges in any high asset divorce in Michigan. The more assets a couple shares, the more battles there might be that can delay proceedings. Different types of assets in these marital estates are typically more complicated, requiring the services of
- [After alimony is awarded, logging payments is critical](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/12/after-alimony-is-awarded-logging-payments-is-critical/) - There are plenty of issues that any divorcing couple needs to handle before they can finalize they divorce. One of the issues that often comes up is alimony, a critical form of compensation that is awarded in certain cases. The determination for alimony is based on numerous factors, such as the length of the marriage,
- [Second divorce? Here's how it will affect your assets.](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/11/second-divorce-heres-how-it-will-affect-your-assets/) - While many couples who go into a second marriages are often hopeful that this time it will work out, the cold truth is that those who marry a second time are more likely to divorce than they were the first time. While the national average for the first-time divorce is around 40% the average for divorce in second marriages
- [Different types of custody in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/10/different-types-of-custody-in-michigan/) - You want what is best for your child, and so does the court in the case of a divorce. That is why child custody is a very serious matter that the court strictly regulates. If parents are able to work together and determine a custody arrangement amongst themselves, the court usually lets that agreement stand. However, if
- [Know your property division laws before heading to court](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/10/know-your-property-division-laws-before-heading-to-court/) - Michigan residents, like others in the nation, often face challenges during divorce proceedings. No two situations are exactly alike. While the challenges that arise may vary, many people share common experiences regarding certain issues, such as child custody, visitation or property division. The latter is a particular concern for those who own businesses or circumstances
- [When is sole legal child custody warranted in a Michigan divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/09/when-is-sole-legal-child-custody-warranted-in-a-michigan-divorce/) - When married couples in Michigan who have children divorce, they often face many challenges during proceedings insofar as future care and decision-making rights are concerned. The court generally bases its decisions on whatever it determines is in the children's best interests at the time although as time goes on life changes may prompt a modification
- [Jenelle Evans battling son's grandmother in child custody dispute](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/09/jenelle-evans-battling-sons-grandmother-in-child-custody-dispute/) - Many Michigan reality TV fans are familiar with Jenelle Evans. The Teen Mom star has been in and out of court regarding her ability to parent to her young son. In a surprising turn of events, Evans is back in court after the paternal grandmother of her 3-year-old child has filed an emergency request for
- [Alimony calculations in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/09/alimony-calculations-in-michigan/) - In the eyes of the court, both parties should be able to continue to sustain their lives after a divorce. For this reason, one party may need to continue to provide financial support for the other in the form of alimony. Whether you are giving or receiving alimony, it is important to understand how it works.
- [When you marital division leads to property division problems](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/09/when-you-marital-division-leads-to-property-division-problems/) - Michigan is not a community property state. Then again, neither are most other states throughout the nation. This means when you divorce your spouse, your marital assets will be divided fairly but not necessarily evenly. This often leads to some very heated property division arguments between spouses. Just because you are concerned with retaining ownership
- [Child custody situations may change if law passes in Michigan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/08/child-custody-situations-may-change-if-law-passes-in-michigan/) - A Michigan representative is lobbying for change regarding how much time parents get to spend with their children after divorce. A bill has been proposed that may change the face of child custody law throughout the state. Those supporting the bill say the current system basically pits parents against each other in a legal contest
- [Reasons a judge may be unlikely to award alimony](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/08/reasons-a-judge-may-be-unlikely-to-award-alimony/) - Many Michigan residents are currently battling it out with soon-to-be former spouses in family court. For some, a major topic of contention is who will live with the children involved in a particular situation; for others, money is a high priority issue specifically, whether either spouse is entitled to alimony. There are no set-in-stone laws
- [Child custody battle keeps Victoria Azarenka out of championship](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/08/child-custody-battle-keeps-victoria-azarenka-out-of-championship/) - Many Michigan parents understand what it's like to disagree with each other regarding the care and raising of their children. In situations of divorce, or where parents were never married to start, child custody issues can turn into raging battles that take weeks or months (even years) to resolve. Sometimes, such circumstances drastically affect the
- [Do you know the consequences of hiding assets?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/08/do-you-know-the-consequences-of-hiding-assets/) - Divorce is one situation in Metro Detroit where some spouses hide assets to cheat their partners out of their share of the marital property. Many of them are not aware of how risky this type of behavior is. They may have motivation to hide information about assets and finances because of a sense of entitlement and negative
- [Divorce of high net worth couples need not be costly](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/08/divorce-of-high-net-worth-couples-need-not-be-costly/) - For high-earning couples, or those with significant assets, ending a marriage can be a costly process. However, as for any divorce in Michigan, with proper planning and professional guidance, even a high net worth divorce can be navigated without breaking the bank. In most cases, if one spouse accumulated substantial assets before the wedding, there
- [Child custody issues: Where should the children live?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/08/child-custody-issues-where-should-the-children-live/) - What is best for the child? This is perhaps one of the most important questions that must be answered during the divorce process when Michigan parents decide to divorce. As such, it is the essential component of the child custody agreement. In most cases, the child lives with one parent and then either visits or moves
- [3 mistakes to avoid in a high-net divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/08/3-mistakes-to-avoid-in-a-high-net-divorce/) - If you are divorcing your partner and there are valuable assets at stake, you should approach the situation carefully. Michigan divorces are not always easy. When there are high-net assets involved, deciding who gets what can get complicated. You may be under a lot of stress and feel emotional about the changes you are experiencing because of
- [Prison possible in failure to pay almost $30,000 in child support](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/07/prison-possible-in-failure-to-pay-almost-30000-in-child-support/) - Food, clothes, mortgage – it all adds up. Then, when one adds on the cost of school supplies and other necessities this time of year, the cost of raising a child appears to increase exponentially. Michigan courts have long recognized the need for both parents to bear financial responsibility for their children. As such, when
- [Child custody plans are not easy when one parent won't cooperate](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/07/child-custody-plans-are-not-easy-when-one-parent-wont-cooperate/) - Co-parenting with a disagreeable ex-spouse can make matters difficult, if not impossible. Trying to reach child custody agreements can be frustrating if one spouse cannot behave respectfully or refuses to compromise. Michigan parents may be forced to deal with such parenting partners by declining to continue a discussion once it begins to deteriorate into an
- [Parenting time an important part of child custody agreement](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/07/parenting-time-an-important-part-of-child-custody-agreement/) - Children are an important consideration in a divorce. When the Michigan couple decides that the marriage cannot be salvaged, they still each have a responsibility to their children. As part of the divorce decree, child custody details are stated so that the children's best interest are protected. One aspect of the child custody arrangement is
- [More to property division than just agreeing on who gets what](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/07/more-to-property-division-than-just-agreeing-on-who-gets-what/) - Saving money is a good idea in many instances. Many Michigan couples use coupons, try to cut expenses and look for the best deals on their purchases. However, when it comes to divorce, saving money by attempting to do it themselves may actually cost them more in the end. Although they may agree on property
- [Financial aspects of property division](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/06/financial-aspects-of-property-division/) - The writing is on the wall and both individuals know that the marriage will probably not last much longer. Once reality sets in, it is time to start thinking about one's financial future and how the property division process can have a lasting impact. For many Michigan couples, separating the financial aspects of the marriage
- [Michigan child support payments now easier to make](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/06/michigan-child-support-payments-now-easier-to-make/) - Convenience can make a difference. Across the country, the excuses for not making child support payments are almost as prolific as the delinquent payments themselves. However, the state of Michigan has been working to eliminate some of these excuses. This past August, Michigan introduced a convenient way for some parents to make child support payments.
- [Property division concerns for older divorcee](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/06/property-division-concerns-for-older-divorcee/) - "Can I afford a divorce?" This is the question than goes through the minds of many older Michigan residents as they contemplate ending an unhappy marriage. In order to answer this question, it will be necessary to review the current financial situation and all elements that will be involved in the property division part of
- [3 problems that lead divorcing couples to mediation](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/06/3-problems-that-lead-divorcing-couples-to-mediation/) - Mediation is gaining ground over traditional divorce, and there are three main reasons. First, the cost of working out the divorce settlement can be extremely high. Second, settlements often do not last, and third, a bitter divorce takes a toll on the parties in terms of emotional trauma. Many couples headed for divorce court are
- [Property division and the prenuptial agreement](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/06/property-division-and-the-prenuptial-agreement/) - The location has been selected, the cake tasted and the dresses ordered. It appears that everything for a perfect Michigan wedding is coming together. Yet, one important part of the planning process that is sometimes overlooked is planning for future possibilities. Sometimes the unthinkable happens, and death or divorce creeps in. With this possibility in
- [Michigan child support modification](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/05/michigan-child-support-modification/) - Most Michigan residents would like to think that as time goes by, their incomes will also increase. For many individuals, this is true and their families benefit. However, when that family is no longer together as one unit, the individual may still have an obligation to share the increase in income as a part of
- [Property division and military pension payments](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/05/property-division-and-military-pension-payments/) - For many Michigan couples, many decisions regarding their divorce agreement revolve around financial concerns. Even after all the details have been worked out and agreed to, future decisions can sometimes have a significant financial impact on both parties. In addition to child support, and alimony, property division can play an important role in the post-divorce
- [Buyout plans may interest business owners going through divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/05/buyout-plans-may-interest-business-owners-going-through-divorce/) - Individuals who have started companies that have seen success over the years may have earned a considerable amount of money. Because hard work and dedication often contribute to this achievement, many Michigan business owners feel reluctant to part ways with much -- if any -- of their stake in the company. However, some parties may find
- [Prenup can offer protection during divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/05/prenup-can-offer-protection-during-divorce/) - Before getting married, couples typically feel that their love will last forever. However, the reality is that divorce can happen to any couple. For this reason, drafting prenuptial agreements has received an increasing amount of attention in Michigan and elsewhere in recent years. Prenuptial agreements, also known as prenups, are legal agreements that are entered
- [How can divorce affect my tax situation?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/05/how-can-divorce-affect-my-tax-situation/) - Whether you herald the end of your marriage or dread it like the plague, there is no way for you to avoid the changes and multitude of decisions that you will need to make. You may become so focused on your living situation in Michigan and your kids' well-being that you fail to consider one
- [Property division and the different types of divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/05/property-division-and-the-different-types-of-divorce/) - The decision to divorce is often a difficult one for a Michigan couple to make. One day the couple is fighting and can't stand the idea of another day together; another day, at least one spouse wonders if they should give it one more try. At some point, though, the difficult decision needs to be
- [Michigan child support basics](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/04/michigan-child-support-basics/) - Regardless of the parent's relationship, children need support from both of them. In addition to love and affection, it takes money to raise a child. Whether the parents are finalizing a divorce or simply separating, child support typically comes into play. Generally, a Michigan court will order one parent to pay a specified amount as
- [Many times, it is the perfect couple that is heading for divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/04/many-times-it-is-the-perfect-couple-that-is-heading-for-divorce/) - On the surface, they appear to have it all. The Michigan couple has money in the bank, a nice home, new cars and the ability to travel. They seem like the perfect couple. However, looks can be deceiving and the couple that others envy may actually be heading for divorce. When divorce looms as a
- [Spousal support depends upon a number of factors](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/04/spousal-support-depends-upon-a-number-of-factors/) - The decision to end a marriage can be a difficult one to make. Many times, one spouse earns more than the other; sometimes one of the spouses has been out of the workforce for a number of years. In situations such as these, divorce may appear to be a financial catastrophe for the individual. Fortunately,
- [Assets and liabilities part of property division](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/04/assets-and-liabilities-part-of-property-division/) - Assets and liabilities are a significant part of most Michigan divorces. The couple decides that it is time to go their separate ways and then the questions of who gets what and who is responsible for what become crucial. For some, decisions related to property division can become points of contention. In deciding who gets
- [Find out if your spouse is hiding assets](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/03/find-out-if-your-spouse-is-hiding-assets/) - While virtually every divorce comes with some amount of contention and complexities, if you and your spouse have high-value assets, the complications might be exacerbated. Divorces that involve complex assets have unique challenges that you should understand and anticipate. One such challenge is the possibility of your spouse hiding assets to prevent them from being
- [Happily ever after, prenuptial agreements and property division](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/03/happily-ever-after-prenuptial-agreements-and-property-division/) - The question has been asked and answered, the dress bought and the attendants selected. On the surface, it looks like the Michigan couple is well on their way to happily ever after. However, statistics show that not every one of these couples will actually accomplish this goal. At some point, a significant portion of these
- [How is child support determined in a Michigan divorce?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/03/how-is-child-support-determined-in-a-michigan-divorce/) - Children are expensive. Add to this a sudden change in income due to a divorce, and many Michigan parents often wonder how they will be able to provide for their children after a divorce. In order to address this situation, the state of Michigan has guidelines in place to direct the courts in determining the
- [What factors do Michigan courts consider when making child custody decisions?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/03/what-factors-do-michigan-courts-consider-when-making-child-custody-decisions/) - In an ideal situation, couples will be able to enter into the divorce process with a willingness to cooperate with one another and a commitment to reaching the best possible parenting time arrangement for their children. The reality is that many couples are unable to do this and court intervention becomes necessary. When a court
- [Child custody and divorce are prime topics during month of March](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/02/child-custody-and-divorce-are-prime-topics-during-month-of-march/) - March is a busy month for many Michigan families. In addition to the many activities that each family member is involved in, March is also one of the busiest months for divorce filings. Some couples have battled through the holiday season and have finally decided that things will just not work out. For many, decisions
- [Dividing a business in a Michigan divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/02/dividing-a-business-in-a-michigan-divorce/) - Dividing property in a divorce can be complicated and contentious even when complex assets are not involved. However, divorcing spouses who own a business often face even more questions when it comes to how to properly divide property in divorce. Here are some things to keep in mind when it comes for how to proceed:
- [Prenuptial agreement assists in property division planning](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/02/prenuptial-agreement-assists-in-property-division-planning/) - The prenuptial agreement is often thought of as something that only wealthy individuals need to consider. However, as more Michigan couples over 50 decide to marry, the prenuptial agreement is becoming an important tool for this age demographic. For many of these individuals, the decision to marry carries with it concerns regarding property division in the
- [High net worth divorce battle escalates over earrings](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/02/high-net-worth-divorce-battle-escalates-over-earrings/) - Any divorce can be volatile, but when a couple is facing the division of millions in assets, things could easily become contentious. In Michigan and many states, courts divide assets equitably, though not necessarily equally. When dealing with high net worth, it may be arguable what the two parties consider a fair division of their
- [Equal child custody benefits even the youngest children](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/02/equal-child-custody-benefits-even-the-youngest-children/) - Psychologists have long believed that infants and toddlers are better off spending most of their time with their mothers. This often leaves divorced fathers in Michigan with limited visitation until children are older. However, a recent study reveals that when fathers have child custody from the earliest years, the children benefit in many crucial ways.
- [Relocation plans may spark child custody disputes](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/01/relocation-plans-may-spark-child-custody-disputes/) - Divorce is difficult on children, especially if their parents are combative. Within the first two years of a divorce, nearly 25 percent of parents with child custody move away from the non-custodial parent. Surveys show that children whose divorced parents move more than an hour apart may suffer from a higher level of stress, hostility
- [Spousal support laws are changing little by little](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/01/spousal-support-laws-are-changing-little-by-little/) - Property division, child support and alimony are usually the three most contentious financial issues people deal with in a divorce. Spousal support may be the most controversial of the three, and there are grass-roots efforts working for reform in Michigan and across the country. Lately, however, the push for change is coming from a surprising
- [Johnny Depp and Amber Heard complete property division](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/01/johnny-depp-and-amber-heard-complete-property-division/) - Most people cannot imagine trying to divide the assets a divorcing celebrity couple may have. While the average couple may dispute bank and retirement accounts, the fate of the house and who gets the newer car, superstar couples may have millions at stake when it comes to property division. Johnny Depp and Amber Heard have
- [Warning signs your spouse is hiding property](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/01/warning-signs-your-spouse-is-hiding-property/) - If you suspect a divorce or separation is in your near future, things between you and your spouse may have already reached an acrimonious level. You may suspect that he or she is attempting to hide assets ahead of the split, and you may well be right. Many people prep for divorce by trying to
- [Man accused of paying child support with stolen money](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/01/man-accused-of-paying-child-support-with-stolen-money/) - When times are tough, parents in Michigan often do extraordinary things to make ends meet. People may take second or third jobs, others might open their homes to boarders and others sell some of their possessions. One man in another state is accused of meeting his child support debts in a daring and dangerous way.
- [High net worth and high emotions may mean poor decisions](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2017/01/high-net-worth-and-high-emotions-may-mean-poor-decisions/) - A divorce often involves high emotions, including anger, resentment, sorrow and guilt. These emotions often provide the worst frame of mind for making important decisions, yet decisions are what divorce is all about. Those facing a divorce in Michigan may already be allowing those feelings to influence their actions, and this can lead to mistakes
- [As holidays end, child custody issues may continue](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/12/as-holidays-end-child-custody-issues-may-continue/) - The holidays are nearly over, but some may still be experiencing conflict. Those special days that are meant for celebration and togetherness may feel especially empty if one is facing time alone because of a child custody order. While the Michigan courts may have granted some parenting time over the weeks of festivity, there are
- [Divorce and property division may be avoided with honest talks](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/12/divorce-and-property-division-may-be-avoided-with-honest-talks/) - Many couples in Michigan decide to get married because they have so much in common. They may enjoy the same movies or music, prefer the same restaurants or have similar tastes in books. However, when it comes to the nitty-gritty, differences may begin to show. This is why it is important for engaged couples to
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- [Alimony is awarded based on numerous factors](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/12/alimony-is-awarded-based-on-numerous-factors/) - In a no-fault state like Michigan, neither spouse is required to prove the other did anything wrong to justify a divorce. However, when it comes to alimony, the court may take fault into consideration. Aside from fault, there are other factors a judge will examine to determine how much support, if any, a spouse will
- [Sperm donor not responsible for child support](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/11/sperm-donor-not-responsible-for-child-support/) - Reproductive options in Michigan and across the country are changing rapidly as the make-up of nuclear families evolves. While the laws race to keep up with the changing landscape, judges are sometimes left to make decisions where little precedent exists. At least one man is happy for the recent child support ruling a family law
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- [Property division may still include separate bank accounts](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/11/property-division-may-still-include-separate-bank-accounts/) - It is no secret that one of the most common reasons for a couple deciding to divorce is money troubles. Some may deal with uncontrolled spending, unmanageable debt or even keeping secret bank accounts. Because of this, some financial advisors believe it may be beneficial for certain couples in Michigan and beyond to keep their
- [Tips for talking about divorce with children](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/11/tips-for-talking-about-divorce-with-children/) - Divorce massively changes the lives of children. Watching parents experience a loss of love can be disheartening and tragic. Children also have to adjust to custody arrangements and navigating a challenging family dynamic. No matter the age of the child involved, parental divorce is an event that significantly alters their way of living and perceiving
- [Premarital agreements are useful for more than property division](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/11/premarital-agreements-are-useful-for-more-than-property-division/) - When celebrities divorce, they are often scolded by fans who want to know why the couple never signed a prenuptial agreement. Sometimes millions of dollars are at stake, and occasionally a spouse who has only been married to a celebrity for a brief time will win a settlement that leaves the celebrity's wealth depleted. People
- [How to create a parenting plan](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/11/how-to-create-a-parenting-plan/) - Developing a parenting plan is an important part of the divorce process. Figuring out all of the details of a divorce may be difficult and frustrating, but you should always put your children first and do what is best for them. Understanding how child custody agreements work and what to include in them will make
- [Michigan child custody battle ends in tragedy](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/11/michigan-child-custody-battle-ends-in-tragedy/) - When a marriage ends, some battles continue. Child custody disputes are among those that can drag on months or years beyond the signing of the divorce papers. They become even more complicated when the parents live in different states. One custody battle reached its resolution in a tragic manner for a Michigan father. The man
- [Will a divorce court award you a share of your spouse's pension?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/10/will-a-divorce-court-award-you-a-share-of-your-spouses-pension/) - Assets acquired before marriage are generally excluded from the marital estate. However, earnings that occur during the marriage on previously owned assets, such as pensions or other retirement accounts, might be subject to property division. In Michigan, an equitable distribution of a retirement account may not necessarily require an even split of payments from a
- [Tips for protecting your privacy during a high-asset divorce](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/10/tips-for-protecting-your-privacy-during-a-high-asset-divorce/) - Readers may be familiar with the news of Angelina Jolie’s divorce filing against Brad Pitt. A recent article suggested that Jolie might opt for negotiations outside the courtroom. Collaborative divorce is one way to avoid the privacy invasion that accompanies court filings. It may also shield children from the public's eye. Instead of litigating in
- [Changing family structures impact child support, alimony awards](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/10/changing-family-structures-impact-child-support-alimony-awards/) - Data from the Pew Research Center indicates that the number of stay-at-home dads has nearly doubled in the past twenty years. Around two million fathers reported staying at home to care for their children in 2012. Such changes in American family structures could have broader implications, especially in family law. For example, child custody arrangements
- [Former NBA star seeks modification of his child support order](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/10/former-nba-star-seeks-modification-of-his-child-support-order/) - Professional athletes can earn substantial salaries, and basketball stars in the NBA are no exception. Former NBA star Glen Rice, who played for the University of Michigan’s Wolverines before the Miami Heat picked him up, reportedly made over $60 million in his 15-year career. Yet the 49-year-old former star recently sought a court modification to
- [Do you need a lawyer for divorce mediation?](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/10/do-you-need-a-lawyer-for-divorce-mediation/) - For couples that want to spare unnecessary heartache and expense in their divorce, it just makes sense to attempt to reach agreement on as many issues as possible outside of the courtroom. Our law firm has helped many couples approach divorce amicably in furtherance of those goals. For example, we offer several alternative dispute resolution
- [Financial equality and independence may ease alimony discussions](https://www.eisenbergspilman.com/blog/2016/09/financial-equality-and-independence-may-ease-alimony-discussions/) - Efforts to achieve wage equality make greater progress each year. There’s still work to be done, since an income gap still exists between the genders. On average, women earn only about 78 percent of what their husbands make. On the other hand, an increasing number of women now have larger incomes than their husbands. The

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